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Listening Style Assessment

LISTENING STYLE ASSESSMENT

Rate yourself with the sliders (1–5). Your dominant style and a breakdown chart will appear at the end.

Do colleagues and friends say you are a good listener? Whatever role you play in a team, listening is a vital ingredient in your own and the team’s success. Without listening, there is misunderstanding, duplication of effort, disagreements, disengagement, lower wellbeing, and less creativity. New ideas emerge in the space between people in teams. And when we aren’t listening to each other’s perspectives and insights, we’re not making the most of the rich resources we have.

In research, 75% of people think they are above or well above average in their listening abilities. Only 12% of those people rated their colleagues as having above or well above-average abilities. We’re biased – we think we are better than others at listening.

NOTE:This assessment is in two parts. First, we will ask you to reflect on the way you listen to others. In the second, you will hear recorded messages and we will ask you questions on these to rate how good a listener you are and the information you focus on when listening.

Rate your listening abilities

We also know that people can learn to become better listeners. To do so, we need to take a hard look at ourselves and ask friends, colleagues, and loved ones for their views on our abilities. We also need to improve how we listen by emulating those around us who do it well.

Improve your listening skills by listening to one conversation at a time – seek to have connected conversations with the people around you.